Sometimes we just need someone to help us clear away the clutter when we can't see the wood for the trees. We want to achieve something or create a clear goal but just can't define it. Whatever your reason for coming to Perhaps…, I'll help you to see how what you believe and do contributes to what happens in your life and career. I'll help you to define the changes that you want to make, ignite your motivation to make them and support you in the actions that will make the changes happen.
Take Brenda, an executive assistant in a small law firm. She loved her job but was having difficulties in a relationship with a coworker. The coworker often talked about her with other staff and management - in a gossipy way. Brenda believed that this would damage her standing with her bosses and colleagues. Brenda believed that she was not good enough to do a satisfactory job, and couldn't stand up for herself because she didn't have enough confidence. After working with the beliefs it came to light that she was bullied in the schoolyard and didn't stand up for herself at that time. After a small number of sessions Brenda confronted the gossiping coworker, explained to her how this was not professional and how it was damaging Brenda's standing with her bosses and asked her to stop. The coworker contritely said she would stop, apologized and invited Brenda for coffee. It turned out that the coworker had also been bullied at school.
